Showing posts with label Yaakov Avinu. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Yaakov Avinu. Show all posts

Sunday, August 28, 2011

People not Listening to Arguments of "Heads" - just taking them down

Here are some insights of my husband, Raphael Cohen. Maybe he will write up his ideas soon.

When I saw this article, it made me think that messianic times are here
http://www.debka.com/article/21234/

Showdown at Hebron
Jacob and Esau not only shared a set of parents and a birthday; they
were also buried on the same day.

The Midrash relates that when Jacob's funeral procession reached the
Cave of Machpelah in Hebron, the burial place of Abraham, Sarah, Isaac
and Rebecca, they found Esau and his henchmen barring their path. Esau
claimed that the sole remaining plot was his by inheritance, after
Jacob had already taken his share when he buried his wife Leah in the
cave. When Jacob's children maintained that their father had bought
out his brother's share, Esau denied this. The transaction had been
put in writing, but the deed was back in Egypt, and fleet-footed
Naftali was dispatched to retrieve it. Chushim, the deaf son of Dan,
asked what the commotion was all about and was incensed to learn that
Esau had halted the funeral of his revered grandfather. With a mighty
blow of his sword, Chushim severed Esau's head, which rolled into the
Cave of Machpelah and came to rest in Isaac's lap, where it remains to
this day. Thus it came to pass that "Esau's head lies in the bosom of
Isaac."
http://www.chabad.org/global/popup/default_cdo/aid/2712/jewish/The-Beheading-of-Esau.htm

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At first, the surrounding nations did not part in the funeral. When
they saw his great honor, they came, and their kings hung their 36
crowns on his bier: Sotah 13a
When the nations first came, it was for war; then they saw Yosef's
crown hung on the bier, and they did as he had done: Sotah 13a
In Egypt, even the animals mourned: Sotah 13a
The story of Esav's attempt to block the burial of Jacob in the cave
of Machpelah, and the role played by Naftali in getting the bill of
sale, and of the deaf Chushim ben Dan in killing Esav. Esav's eyes
landed on Jacob's feet, and Jacob opened his eyes and laughed: Sotah
13a
http://www.webshas.org/torah/bichtav/tanach/avos/jacob.htm

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2) CHUSHIM'S REACTION AT THE BURIAL OF YAKOV AVINU
QUESTION: The Gemara relates that Chushim, the son of Dan, was
hearing-impaired. When he saw that the funeral procession of Yakov
Avinu was being delayed, he asked someone why it had stopped. When he
was informed that they were waiting for Naftali to bring the deed of
ownership from Mitzrayim to refute Esav's claim to the plot, Chushim
became very upset and declared, "My grandfather lies in disgrace until
Naftali returns from Mitzrayim?" He took a staff and struck the head
of Esav, killing him.

The Gemara clearly implies that the fact that Chushim was deaf
contributed to his reaction. What difference, though, did it make that
he was deaf? Even those who could hear well would have been expected
to act in that manner when Esav delayed the burial of Yakov Avinu.

ANSWERS:
(a) The simple explanation is that Chushim thought that Esav was just
making a front, finding an excuse to delay the funeral, and that he
did not have any valid claim since everyone knew that Yakov had bought
the Bechorah from Esav and it was not necessary to bring any document
of proof. Had he been able to hear, he would have heard that Esav's
claim was not for the portion of the Bechorah in the burial grounds
but for the portion due to him as an ordinary son ("Pashut") of
Yitzchak. It was not as well-known that when Yakov returned from the
house of Lavan, Esav sold to him his portion of the "Pashut" as well.

(b) RAV CHAIM SHMUELEVITZ zt'l in SICHOS MUSAR (5731, #32, and 5733,
#6; see also MAHARAL in Chidushei Agados) explains that those who were
able to hear did not become so upset because they heard Esav present
his arguments, and they were able to argue back. As time passed during
the argument, they became desensitized to the fact that a terrible
injustice was being done. Chushim, on the other hand, who heard none
of it as it was happening and then heard about the cause for the
lengthy delay at one moment, naturally became very upset and therefore
reacted the way he did.

http://www.dafyomi.co.il/sotah/insites/so-dt-013.htm

Reb Chaim Shmuelevitz learns a tremendous lesson from this. He says
that it is very significant that Chushim was hearing-impaired. The
people present started to negotiate with Esav who was refusing to
allow Yaakov to be buried. However, Chushim didn’t get involved in a
discussion. He saw that his grandfather’s funeral was being disrupted
in a disrespectful manner and that Esav was the cause and so he acted
immediately and killed him. The Yetzer Hara deserves no attention or
discussion, when we see the proper course of action necessary, we must
work fast to act upon it! The fact that it was done by decapitation
will be discussed later.
http://www.closetotorah.com/2010/01/who-killed-esav-parshas-vayechi-5770/

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Asara beTevet, Teshuva, 8 Tevet, 9 Tevet etc.

From today's Hakhel email:

Special Note Three: Today is the eighth day of Teves, the tragic day upon which the Torah was translated into Greek, the Septuagint, which is marked as a Ta’anis Tzadikim (Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 580:2). For further detail on the tragedy of the Septuagint, we refer you to the Sefer HaToda’ah, translated into English as The Book of Our Heritage (Feldheim), by Rabbi Eliyahu Kitov, Z’tl.

Tomorrow, the ninth day of Teves is actually also a Ta’anis Tzadikim, for it is the Yahrtzeit of Ezra HaSofer (see Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim ibid., Mishna Berurah seif katan 13). As a zechus for Ezra Hasofer, one can review the Takanos that Ezra instituted, as described in Bava Kamma 82A.

These two days are then followed by a third Ta’anis, Asara B’Teves, which is observed by all.

The Chasam Sofer in a Drasha that he gave on the eighth day of Teves (approximately 200 years ago) suggests that after the 70-day period of mourning in Egypt ended for Yaakov Avinu, the Bnei Yisroel traveled to Eretz Canaan and eventually buried Yaakov Avinu--on Asara B’Teves. The date of Eisav’s death is then--yes, Asara B’Teves, as well.

There is much to learn from the Chasam Sofer’s conclusion in our observance of Asara B’Teves. After all, Ma'aseh Avos Siman L’Bonim--that which occurred to our forefathers is a sign for future generations. Firstly, Chazal teach us that “Yaakov Avinu Lo Mais.” That is, even though it may appear to us that Yaakov passed away, in fact, he lives on--most certainly so in spirit. We, too, having experienced the devastating blow of the events of Asara B’Teves more than 2,500 years ago have not rolled over and died as scores of other nations have in the meantime. Moreover, what ultimately happened on Asara B’Teves was the death of Eisav. This, the Chasam Sofer writes, is symbolic of Asara B’Teves in the end being turned from a date of sadness to a day of “Sasson V’Simcha”--joy and happiness.

The missing link to bring us to what Asara B’Teves is supposed to be is Teshuva. We all know that this is the shortest fast of the year, so it should be the easiest. That is a gift in and of itself. However long or short the fast is, in order to be meaningful, it must be accompanied by Teshuva. We must do something. We must make a move to revitalize Yaakov, and to once and for all, put Eisav away.

One suggestion may be to take out your Vidui booklet, or other Rosh Hashana/Yom Kippur reminder. We especially note that Asara B’Teves is “Asiri Lakodesh”--the next tenth day in a series of ten day periods since Yom Kippur--an especially auspicious day for personal improvement!

One final, but important comment: Rashi explains that when Yosef and Binyamin fell on each other’s necks in last week’s Parsha (Bereishis 45:14), it was to symbolize the destruction of the two Batei Mikdashos, and the Mishkan of Shilo, which were located in their respective territories in Eretz Yisroel. The Avnei Nezer explains that the “necks” symbolize the Bais HaMikdash and the Mishkan, because just as the neck connects the head (which is the resting place of the soul) to the rest of the body, so, too, does the Bais HaMikdash (and the Mishkan) fully and finally connect our physical lives to our spiritual existence. When we yearn for the Bais HaMikdash, we are yearning to connect our corporeal life to the highest spiritual plane it can achieve. By endeavoring to make a brocha (the spiritual) over food (the physical) properly, we demonstrate that we are sincerely preparing for--and awaiting--the day when we truly can connect our bodies to our souls in the most absolute and outstanding way that we can!

Friday, October 22, 2010

King David's Temple and Yaakov's Temple - Insights on Psalm 30

Some great Mikdash insights from the Praying with Passion email:

The daily learning of this sefer is
L'Zacher Nishmas
Sorah Breina A"H bas Ezriel Shalom
Sarah Klein

PRAYING WITH PASSION- Issue #45
Tefillah Focus Of The Week:
Mizmor Shir: Part 1
King David’s Temple

מזמור שיר חנכת הבית לדוד: ארוממך ה' כי דליתני. ולא שמחת איבי לי:
Meaning:(The simple translation of the prayer):
A psalm—a song for the inauguration of the Temple—by David. I will exalt You, Hashem, for you have drawn me up and not let my foes rejoice over me.

NOTE: Nusach Ashkenaz and Nusach Sephard differ in the placement of ‘Mizmor Shir Chanukas Habayis L’Dovid’ (Tehillim 30). In Nusach Ashkenaz, Mizmor Shir is recited before Boruch She’amar; in Nusach Sefard, Mizmor Shir is recited after Hodu.

Word to the Wise (Meaning within the word):
חנוכת הבית לדודThe wordבית refers to the third Bais HaMikdash which will be built at the time of Mashiach. (Tallelei Oros on Siddur, Page 12). The verse (Yeshayahu 2:3) says, “Many people will go and say, ‘Come, let us go up to the mountain of Hashem, to the House of the G-d of Yaakov...’”. The Gemara (Pesachim 88a) asks why the verse specifies the third Bais HaMikdash as the ‘House of the G-d of Yaakov?’
Maharsha (Pesachim 88a) explains that each of our Avos, our forefathers, was associated with a Bais HaMikdash. Avrohom called it הר -- ‘mountain,’ which represents the first Bais HaMikdash, as it states ‘On the mountain Hashem is seen’ (Bereishis 22:14). The Shechinah watched over the first Bais HaMikdash like a guard strategically stationed on top of a mountain. This protection was not permanent, for the first Bais HaMikdash was destroyed.
Yitzchak called the Bais Hamikdash שדה -- ‘field,’ as it says, “Yitzchak went out to pray in the field.” (Ibid 24:63). שדה is linked to the second Bais HaMikdash, which merited an even lesser degree of the Divine Presence.
Yaakov called the Bais Hamikdash בית -- ‘house,’ as it states (Ibid 28:19) “He named that place ‘the House of G-d.’” This בית symbolizes the third Bais HaMikdash, which will enjoy Divine protection like a house that is permanent and complete.



Theme: (An essential concept of the prayer):

Justice Is Done

Hashem defends His servants against their enemies.

Insight: (Deeper meanings of the theme):

Restoring a Reputation
Many commentators ask why this Psalm states, “a song for the inauguration of the Temple by David” when it was really King Solomon, King David’s son, who built and inaugurated it. An answer is provided by the Gemara (Shabbos 30a and Sanhedrin 107b), which relates that King Solomon was at first unable to bring the ark containing the tablets of the Ten Commandments into the Holy of Holies, where it was to be kept. When he tried to open the gates of the Holy of Holies, they miraculously clung to each other and could not be pulled apart.
In response, King Solomon recited 24 songs of prayer, but his efforts were to no avail. Then, as he recited the words “Hashem, G-d! Do not turn away the face of Your anointed one! Remember the pieties of David, Your servant,” the gates opened. All the nations and all of Israel knew that Hashem had forgiven David for his sin with Bathsheva (Shemos Rabbah 8:1).
At that moment, the faces of King David’s enemies (the family of Saul, Shimi ben Geira, and others who opposed his ascension to the throne) turned dark with humiliation, appearing black as the bottom of a burned pot. Before this episode, David’s enemies had claimed that G-d did not allow David to build the Holy Temple due to David’s sin. To defeat that claim, Hashem chose the moment when the ark was brought into the Holy of Holies -- the climax of the inauguration of the Holy Temple -- to show that the Temple was built and the Divine Presence would reside in it only on King David’s merit.
Therefore, in effect, the Temple was inaugurated by David. Furthermore, at the time of the inauguration of the Holy Temple, Dovid was vindicated before the eyes of all, including the eyes of his enemies. This vindication came from Hashem and is the inspiration of Dovid’s special praise of Hashem: 'ארוממך ה' כי דליתני ולא שמחת איבי לי' ‘I will exalt You, Hashem, for you have drawn me up and not let my foes rejoice over me.’ (Toras Chaim, cited in the Schottenstein Edition of Tractates Shabbos and Sanhedrin)